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Newsletter June 2007

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June 2007
Success Strategies For Living Your Life ON Purpose
Harriette Lowenstein, MA, LMFT
In This Issue
Putting the Law of Attraction to work for you
Return to Love
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Welcome to the current issue of Success Strategies, written specifically for people who want a better relationship with themselves, their partners, friends, children, and/or co-workers.  If you find this newsletter interesting and helpful, please feel free to forward it to anyone you think will benefit from it and enjoy it.
 
Putting the Law of Attraction to work for you.
Nine Strategies to getting what you want in life

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Attraction is an invisible force that moves one object to another.  For those who have mastered how to attract what they want in live, it feels effortless.  Anyone can learn the principles of attraction and put them to immediate use.

Following are nine strategies you can use to put the Law of Attraction to work in your own life:

  1. Attraction laws are universal and undeniable.  You may not agree with the laws of attraction, but you may recognize that you are already attracting what you do and do not want in life by your daily intentions and actions.  Focus, and choose your thoughts carefully.
  2. Like attracts like.  Have you ever noticed that you can never get enough of what you do not want?  This is because you are usually focusing on what you do not want to happen, and you keep getting more of what you do not want.  Just as you can attrat what you want, you can also attract what you do not want.  Attraction as a power does not know good from bad.  Be conscious of and specific about what you want and reject the negative thoughts that do not align with what you are intending to attract.
  3. Abundance is the natural and normal order of things in the universe.  We come into this world preprogrammed by nature to attract whatever it is that we want.  The inability to attract our greatest desires is a learned behavior.  Therefore, immediately assume that your life is filled with abundance, no matter how small.
  4. All attraction begins in the formless state of thought or intention.  You are constantly thinking about what you want and do not want all the time.  To increase your chances of attracting what you want, you will have to narrow your focus and attention so that a greater percentage of you daily life is spent on activities that puss you toward your highest intentions.  Whatever you focus on expands.  Choose thoughts that move in the same direction as you intentions, and reject negative thoughts that move you away from your intentions.  You are the creator of your destiny and experience.
  5. Intention without action will attract what you do not want.  Once you have clarity on what you want to attract, find ways to stay in daily massive amounts of action...until your intention becomes manifest.  Life rewards action.
  6. Attraction only happens in the present moment.  Therefore, focus on what you can think and do right now in this very moment to move in the direction you want most for yourself, your life, your health, your family, and so on.  The present is perfect.  Everything that is is as it is supposed to be.  While you cannot always control what happens to you in life, you can control how you respond to life.  Start by observing life without judgment, and then move toward becoming an active director in your ideal life experience.
  7. Live your passion.  Begin by choosing to define the experience that you want for this life, and then expect that, with massive amounts of action and lots of faith in yourself, you will attract whatever you want.
  8. Become highly aware of what your values are and lead a life that is congruent with your own expectations of yourself.  Having intentions that are not consistent with your highest values will result in frustration or, worse, in the successful attraction of a result that does not make you happy.  Intentions that move you toward your goals will always intuitively seem more effortless than ones that feel like a lot of work to attract.
  9. Make you intentions very specific, yet do not become attached to the outcome.  The more clearly you are able to define what you want, the faster it will show up in your life.  Once you have a core set of intentions that you want to manifest for yourself, write them down immediately.  Define your dreams, intentions, and goals in measurable terms.  What gets measured, gets managed.  The best way to not get attached to the outcome is to simply believe that you have the ability to attract whatever you want in life and that it will show up exactly as it is supposed to.


Celebrate You
A Return to Love
girl with flower"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant,gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small doesn't serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine, we unconscioulsy give other people permission to do the same.
As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
                                           
Marianne Williamson
I am committed to helping people who are feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, and unappreciated develop strategies to improve their lives and relationships and live with intention and purpose.

For more information or to schedule a consultation, please call me at 805-339-9809 or e-mail me at hlowensteinmft@adelphia.net.

Sincerely,
Harriette

"To be what we are, and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life." 
Baruch Spinoza



Harriette Lowenstein
Harriette Lowenstein, MA, LMFT
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