Harriette Lowenstein, MA, LMFT

"Your past is not your potential.  In any hour, you can choose to liberate the future."           -Marilyn Ferguson

  RELATIONSHIP COACHING IS FOR YOU IF:

• Your relationship is in trouble and you want to feel closer to your spouse
• You and your spouse live under one roof but are emotionally disconnected
• You're currently separated and may have little contact with your spouse
• There has been infidelity and/or an emotional affair
• You frequently have the same old arguments about sex, money, communication, parenting, friends, family....without resolution               

HOW I WORK

As a relationship coach:  I am committed to helping couples resolve their differences and rediscover the enthusiasm and passion in their relationships.

My approach is based on these core principles:

VALUES - Your values are what is important to you in relationships.  Values include honesty, trust, respect, security...etc.  I work with you to identify the values you share and help you build your relationship around them.

VISION -  The shared meaning that you have as a couple.  This includes the rituals, rules, and roles that make up your unique relationship.  I help you become mindful of each other's dreams and vision for your relationship and to communicate your values about these issues to one another.

CLEAR COMMUNICATION - The key ingredient in happy relationships is clear communication.  Good communication means having the impact you intended to have, that is, it is clear and precise.  I teach you the skills and provide you with tools to communicate clearly and precisely.

COMMITMENT -  The expectation that you will stay in the relationship no matter what the difficulties.  It is necessary for each partner to take full responsibility to rebuild or reinforce the building blocks that make the relationship solid.  In addition to a shared vision, values, and clear communication, a committed relationship requires cooperation, collaboration, and celebration.  I work with you to fulfull your joint objectives as a couple and a family, I teach you to approach conflict with an attitude of shared responsibility, and I show you how to make time for each other so intimacy and joy becomes a natural result of your relationship.

"Coming together is the beginning.  Keeping together is progress.  Working together is success."

If you are tired of fighting and ready to work towards success, I can help. I offer both individual and group coaching to fit your financial needs. To schedule an appointment, contact me today.

Harriette Lowenstein, MA

260 Maple Ct. Suite 153

Ventura, Ca. 93003

email: hlowensteinmft@gmail.com